There are some people who’ve never quite felt at home in the world.
Maybe that’s you.
You’ve done all the right things, shown up with heart, held space for others… and still felt that quiet ache — like you’re on the outside looking in. Not quite seen. Not fully known.
This is more than a personal wound.
It’s ancestral. It’s systemic. It’s energetic.
Many who carry this belonging wound come from family systems where someone — maybe many — were burnt at the stake, pushed out, shamed, exiled, or made to feel like they didn’t belong or their gifts were a threat. It could’ve been a great great grandparent, a parent, or entire lineages impacted by trauma, poverty, race, religion, or emotional and spiritual suppression.
And now, that thread runs through your soul.
You may anticipate rejection, struggle in relationships, or over-function at work just to feel safe.
It’s not because you’re flawed.
It’s because your soul came to lead where others have feared to go. It doesn’t have to be in a huge way. It could be just one brave step you take somewhere in your life that can shift this energy in your soul and your entire family system.
It could be one tiny step that you have been afraid to take, or one sentence you have been afraid to say that can shift your entire life, and finally put your external world into a vibration that you know you need to be.
Most people who don’t feel they belong are actually here to lead — to shift the frequency of the very systems they feel separate from.
But there’s a cost to holding back.
If you don’t step into your potential, you may always feel the ache of not fitting in.
If you do step in, it might feel heavy at times — like it’s all on your shoulders.
But the second path is where freedom lives. And love. And fulfilment.
This is the path of the Chain Breaker. The one who remembers a deeper truth:
- You do belong; in your mission to be and do things differently;
- Being a leader is who you are when you are in your truth. Not something to prove.
- Being a Chain Breaker is not a sacrifice; it is a mission that will elevate your Soul.
When you begin to understand who you are and why you experience life and people how you do, everything changes.
There are too many people who have not been in self-reflection, healing and integration; who are still in ego; who are not destined for soul-led leadership who are out there influencing too many people who are looking for answers and guidance.
The world needs you and your leadership in whatever way you feel called. It doesn’t have to be in the healing or spiritual space. It is in your realm of geniuses. You will impact more people then you know!
Stop asking: “What’s wrong with me?”
And start living from the answer: “Nothing. Absolutely nothing.”
You’re not alone in this. Spirit is calling you inward now — to come home to yourself, so your energy can call in what truly resonates.
If you want more personal insight or support on this path from me personally:
🔮 $27 Mini Reading – A quick soul check-in to uncover what’s blocking your sense of belonging. Includes one channelled insight and a guided step forward. BOOK HERE
💫 $100 Deep Soul Reading + Energy Clearing – A full session exploring your unique belonging wound, ancestral dynamics, and the chakra most needing support, with energy healing included. BOOK HERE
You don’t need to explain yourself anymore.
You don’t need to shrink to be accepted.
You don’t need to earn love.
You already belong.
With love,
Rebecca-Lee
Messenger. Chain Breaker. Midwife of Belonging.
