People often ask, “Have you heard of this person?” or “Do you know that new thing everyone’s talking about?” Or have you seen this course or this new modality….
And usually, my answer is no. Honestly, I really don’t give a f*ck…LOL
But I don’t want to sound arrogant…LOL I believe we need to ensure we are keeping up our skills as a practitioner of any kind to ensure we can hold and respect clients with integrity.
But when I’m sent the new buzz or big thing I’m not really interested. I’ve been on my own spiritual and healing journey for about 32 years. I’ve done it my way. I’ve created an amazing family built a very real and honest relationship…. where we have walked the talk and broke hard core family patterns together.
I’ve had more dark nights of the soul than I can remember and been initiated several times. I’ve walked through the fire man. I have walked my talk followed spirit every step of the way. I’ve built an amazing business and my work has helped me become the woman I am. I’ve also helped many people.
You have to forgive me for not wanting to follow the next hip thing or 30-year-old guru. It’s not that I don’t respect them, I know everyone has a place, but it’s mostly not for me. I’ve always had my head down focused on my own path and stayed in my own lane and followed the truth of my soul and calling. That’s it. I don’t get FOMO…lol
I have needed to stay clear and true to my own channel and connected to my truth. I don’t care for chasing the next shiny thing. It’s just me. I know, like I’ve said in my other blog, when one is in the thirsty for knowledge stage they are seeking answers. I get it.
There have been very few teachers I’ve sat with – these teachers have always resonated with my energy and channelled very similar knowledge from spirit so that has been a great support and validation. It allowed me to get some clarity around how I integrate or manifest what comes through me – not to be my guru but someone who cares, can listen and guide me when I need.
So, my message today is basically just keeping your path simple – you’re going to have to do the work regardless what someone promises you – lots of similar shit gets wrapped up in different packaging.
Be picky with your time and energy when going to find a guide, coach or teacher. Remember no one is going to do anything for you – it is ultimately up to you.
Your growth and break throughs will come from waking up to and walking through your own patterns, pain, and shadows.
Everything I share, I’ve lived and integrated and I’m not perfect. I’ll be walking it and learning until the day I die and beyond.
People can keep bringing out the next “never-seen-before” thing — the newest activation, the flashiest tool — but honestly, what you need to do doesn’t change.
Heart work, soul work. It’s not about the packaging — it’s about the depth – how deep they can take you will depend on how deep they’ve gone within themselves and how deep you will allow yourself to go.
True healing is simple — but not easy.
The truth of who you really are never changes.
Be honest. Be responsible. Be accountable.
You don’t need new buzzwords or flashy spiritual trends — you need to stay real, do your inner work, and trust your soul to lead.
Integration takes time.
It’s one step forward, two steps back sometimes — but that’s what embodiment looks like.
I’ve been around offering my work for nearly 20 years. I’m not here for a quick hit and I won’t jump on board selling the next big thing …I’m here for the long haul — for real, grounded, lasting growth that comes from walking the path not performing it.
The programs I created in the beginning are still the ones I stand by today — because it’s what I’ve lived and learnt from over and over again through the years… through my own journey and my clients – and it keeps deepening.
This is what is true for me and I’ve never swayed from that for that very reason.
I’m not here to solve your problems — that’s your work.
But I can guide you through doors you may not have seen before, so you can look honestly at yourself, recognise what’s asking to be healed, and take the steps your soul’s been waiting for.
Keep looking within.
Keep your heart open.
Be honest with yourself; learn to know how you bullshit to yourself
And keep it real — always.
Love Bec
