Our planet is brimming with a random lottery of people; undeniably though, finding true love can be considered challenging and even risky business. Love is supposed to be a beautiful feeling with lots of happy thoughts emanating from the whole package of being in love, so why is finding true love considered a difficult challenge?
Is finding love really so hard? Or do we just make it hard?
Finding love is not hard, but sometimes it takes a long time. Even being in a relationship, it can be often difficult for the partners to connect with the feeling of love. I believe it is extremely important to be in the present moment. Not in the past and not in the future. Your point of power is in the here and now and we must surrender to and accept where you are at. Especially being single, as we attract someone through our energy and vibration so it is important to make the most of where you are in life!
Here are some advantages of being single:
1. You are independent– Basically you can do what you want when you want. You don’t have to wait, you don’t have to ask, compromise and negotiate, you can just go.
2. You have more time– Want to go to the gym? Want to join the hiking club? Play an instrument? How about watching your favourite video for the 10th time? Want to take a course? Learn a new hobby? Who’s stopping you? You don’t have to consider the time with the other person and your shared goals.
3. You don’t have to deal with another’s personal habits– You can sleep without listening to someone’s snoring and hog all the blankets all the time and nobody cares. You don’t have to pick up after anyone but yourself. And you don’t even have to pick up after yourself if you don’t want to. Give your patience a well-deserved break.
4. You can be spontaneous- Be daring! Do what you want when you want to and who cares if you don’t get to dinner until midnight or do the dishes until the morning? Do something out of the ordinary, without having to get permission first or calling ahead. This is freedom.
5. You can focus on your career– You can channel all of your energy into your work. Without a relationship, you have a lot more time. Put in those extra hours and impress your boss, or take on new projects.
It is all about being in a good energy about where you are at. A happy person who is enjoying their life and is content with where they are at right now, has a lot more chance of finding the love that they really want when they are in the moment; taking full responsibility for their own happiness and well-being and enjoying their life in a high vibe.
Look for the positives of your life and enjoy it! The right person will eventually be attracted to your vibe and you theirs.
Soul Love
Rebecca-Lee
