Balancing our inner masculine and feminine energies is important as they largely influence our life and relationships. Whilst we may typically think that the source of energy for a male is the masculine energy and the source energy for a female is the feminine energy, your energy field is a fusion of masculine and feminine spirit.
Many energetic blocks I detect in client energy coaching sessions, are usually founded in an imbalance between these energies.
To explore your inner relationship with the masculine and feminine and the balance of the energies within you, you need to look at how you originally perceived these energies through those around you in your early formative years; particularly with what you observed or “took in” from your parents or guardians.
Our early experiences with male and females largely influence our inner programming around gender-specific behaviours and roles. Therefore, they are the greatest influence over how we personally identify and connect with the masculine and feminine energies within. These experiences and perceptions determine our personal attitude towards our own and the other genders.
Here are some common examples of how our inner masculine and feminine energies are lacking and become unbalanced due to earlier influencers such as our parents –
- Absent Fathers – if you had a physically or emotionally missing father, the missing masculine energy will make it difficult to develop a trusting, loving, and secure inner connection with your own masculinity if you are male; (and vice versa if you are female and had an absent mother)
As a result of this single-sided upbringing, you are likely to fantasize about the absent energy, leading to an idealized, and often unobtainable version of a man or woman. This blocks you in your love life, as you have an unreal expectation of yourself and the other gender. - Controlling Mothers – you may have had an overbearing, hyper-critical or controlling mother. In this case, you would have experienced femininity as controlling, never satisfied, maybe manipulating. This then makes it hard for you to embrace your inner femininity (vice versa in the case of a controlling father). If you are a female, you may rebel against your feminine energy by favouring your masculine, or reject your femininity altogether. Some woman may connect love with control and repeat their mother’s patterns.
Generally men will respond to this by trying to comply out of fear and develop people-pleasing and co-dependent patterns; or repress his anger; develop mistrust and resentment towards the feminine.
We can all build our own balanced connection with Masculinity and Femininity free of parental programs. To do this, you must seek to actively connect to your most pure inner masculine and feminine energies – ones that are from the divine source – not the males and females you have tied these energies to.
If you would like to explore and balance your inner masculine and feminine energies and free yourself from attracting the toxic traits in your love life, consider coming into the Unlock Your Love Blocks program. Key 6 specifically addresses the masculine and feminine imbalance whilst also focusing on the sixth chakra and clearing any distorted perceptions you have of yourself. You can sign up here at www.rebecca-lee.com
Soul Love
Rebecca-Lee
